If you’ve sent a message to a woman, and she hasn’t replied, there’s a good chance she was having a bad day when you last met. If this is the case, avoid sending her a follow-up message. It will only upset her even more and risk giving you a bad reputation. Instead, try to contact her by phone or visit her office. If she doesn’t reply to your messages, wait a few days before sending a follow-up message. Waiting for a few days will help her deal with her anger and feelings.
Rather than making your relationship worse, it might be best to let her talk to you. If she refuses to share what’s bothering her, you should give her some space. Let her process the breakup and decide whether or not to pursue a conversation with you. It might take a while, but it’s important to keep your cool and make the situation better. If the woman continues to ignore your attempts to speak with her, try asking her how she feels about the situation.
Regardless of the reason, you should learn to deal with rejection. Don’t be too hurt or desperate. Remember, you’re only human and sometimes people won’t want to talk to you. You can’t force anyone to talk to you, but you can try to read their body language and listen to their speech patterns to understand what’s bothering them. And if it doesn’t feel right, politely excuse yourself from the interaction.
